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2010-04-16T15:27:00.001+08:00

Relationships are like bottles of fine wine, the longer they've been around the better they are.

Oxidation occurs when a wine is exposed to air. Wines generally require some aeration to "open" the wine "letting a wine breathe" but oxidation can happen when the exposure to air for too long.

A bottle of oxidized wine has an unpleasant aroma and flavor. So how do I ensure my friends don't get oxidized?

2009-09-06T15:25:00.002+08:00

Ang Mo Kio View

2009-01-19T11:42:00.001+08:00

X'mas Celebrating @ SAFRA

2008-12-25T21:30:00.003+08:00

Our X'mas Tree

Our log cake

2008-10-06T10:41:00.006+08:00

Henderson View

2008-08-02T17:23:00.003+08:00

Singapore Flyer View

2008-06-18T23:38:00.000+08:00

United Square

2008-04-28T00:48:00.015+08:00

Kuala Lumpur

Kuala Lumpur Convention Centre

2008-04-14T00:44:00.005+08:00

God loves us that the reason we are forgiven.
The reason you are forgiven because I LOVE YOU!

2008-04-12T16:02:00.000+08:00

Relationships are much about give-and-take. Base it on love, build it with faith and there's much for both to compromise. If both can't reach that stage, the relationship is bound to crumble. Though there are times when the passion dies down, and the feeling wears out and both get tired of each other, if there's even love in the first place, it's really not that hard to rekindle the waning flame. It just takes a bit of effort, and time.

2008-03-23T10:08:00.002+08:00

What if you or your LOVE one left with six months life?
Cherish all moment before it ends?

2008-03-21T16:22:00.002+08:00

Heaven witnessing our entire act!
Kept silence doesn’t mean low IQ, it mean strong EQ!

2008-03-10T09:04:00.002+08:00

Times bring us with no where. After gone thru so much it brought us back to the starting point again. Your cold blood flowed in silently and created a deep cut in me, a cut that I didn't expect from you. I felt so cold now. It was your first time shouted at me…

2008-02-04T22:11:00.002+08:00

2008-02-03T11:18:00.001+08:00

Your suffering is my suffering and your happiness is my happiness.
Just like a mother always loves her child,
I does not forget that spirit even for a single moment.

2008-01-05T00:05:00.000+08:00

Tonight my heart felt so sick!

2007-12-01T18:40:00.000+08:00

I know we can achieve it, if our mind can conceive it and our heart can believe it.

2007-11-19T23:36:00.000+08:00

Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, and it is not the spread of promises of everlasting passion but it this an art of a fortunate accident.

2007-11-04T20:00:00.000+08:00

Broken hearts aren't meant to stay broken. They are supposed to be mended yet the people who we think can mend our broken heart always manage to break it again and again. If there is love, I only ask for one thing from it. Don't lead people into your life and tear them away as soon as they have feelings for you.

2007-10-31T10:47:00.000+08:00

Writing my own life scripts, living the life I want.
6months ago I went for my lasik surgery.
Yesterday I went for two left tooth extraction.
Next Wednesday, two more right tooth extraction.
Guess what after next Wednesday?

Lookout for me on 2008!

2007-10-23T22:58:00.000+08:00

A fish would never stays on land because it was made for water.
An eagle could never feel satisfied if it wasn't allowed to fly.
You will never feel complete on earth unless we are together.

2007-10-04T21:55:00.000+08:00

Days grow longer and nights grow shorter.
Seasons are changing, waves are crashing and Stars are falling.

2007-07-28T22:23:00.000+08:00

When we meet the right person to love and when we're at the right place at the right time, that's chance. When you meet someone you're attracted to, that's not a choice. That's a chance.

Being caught up in a moment (and there are a lot of couples who get together because of this) is not a choice. That's also a chance. The difference is what happens afterwards. When you take that infatuation, that crush, that mind-blowing attraction to the next level? That's when all sanity goes back; you sit down and contemplate whether you want to make this into a concrete relationship or just a fling.

If you decide to love a person, even with his/her faults, that's not a chance. That's a choice. When you choose to be with a person, no matter what, that's a choice.

Even if you know there are many people out there who are more attractive, smarter, and richer than her, and yet, you decide to love her just the same, that's a choice.

Infatuation, crushes, and attraction come to us by chance. But true love that lasts is truly a choice, a choice that we make. Regarding soul mates, there's a beautiful quote that I believe is so true about this: "Fate brings you together, but it's still up to you to make it happen.” I believe that soul mates do exist, that there is truly someone made for you. But it's still up to you to make the choice if you're going to do something about it or not.

For a person like me I always let the chance to walk off? Due to I need to work long hours. Time commitment into an relationship is low. The time I need to spend onto my family is way too much. Parents had both lost their job. So the only way is to look brighter side and move on.

2007-07-28T00:55:00.000+08:00

No winter last forever and no summer have yet to skip its turn.

2007-07-07T16:48:00.001+08:00

Show some action to prove and not just kept saying "I'm sincere". Sincerity is not a credit card to swap again and again.

2007-07-01T01:53:00.000+08:00

How do I exactly measure a month in life?
So many things have happened in a month.

2007-06-22T17:55:00.000+08:00

It is difficult to find someone who are truly in love with us and remain faithful. Even there is such a person; they might not be able to withstand the temptation as time passes. It takes a second to destroy the trust but a long period of time to re-establish it. However, the sweetness in a relationship is so desirable that we can’t resist it. Nobody is perfect. I am Nobody.

2007-06-19T19:04:00.000+08:00

People come into our life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.

When someone is in our life for a reason, it is usually to meet a need we have expressed. They have come to assist us through a difficulty, to provide us with guidance and support, to aid us physically, emotionally or spiritually. They are there for a reason we need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on our part or at inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometime they act up and force us to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled. Their work is done. The prayer we sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.

Some people come into our life for a reason, because our turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring us an experience of peace or make us laugh. They may teach us something we have never done. They usually give us an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season!

Lifetime relationships teach us lifetime lessons, things we must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Our job is to accept the lesson. Love the person and put what we have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of our life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

Lastly, thanks you for being a part of my life, whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime. And I truly appreciate it.

2007-06-17T11:15:00.000+08:00

People come and go. They take away a part of us that we can never recover. Making us realise our heart was broken again.

2007-06-17T00:45:00.000+08:00

Treasure the dreams and love we shared, like an angel who warms your heart. My wings may be clipped by hurtful things, but my heart will always be true.

2007-06-16T11:56:00.000+08:00

Words are lie and looks are poison. The real judgments will come with time. Where you start to regrets and forget. That's we call it LOVE?

2007-06-12T18:56:00.000+08:00

Guideline from someone: "If you are not part of the solution, you are part of the problem." So am I the problem?

2007-05-26T21:35:00.000+08:00

Putting a FULL-STOP on it won't be an option unless we are building walls instead of bridges for the oncoming challenge where we promised to embrace.

2007-05-25T10:35:00.000+08:00

You believe in fighting for you own happiness. If I just park my ass waiting for happiness to come, it will not. No such thing as "fate will bring us two together again." You want it, fight for it. If I don't fight for it, don't lament over it. Tribulations produce perseverance, and perseverance, character; character, hope.

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2007-02-12T09:25:00.000+08:00

Time passes while people changes. Nothing stands still, if anything does. It risks being gone and forgotten. Is this world ever so cold and heartless? Or is there love ebbing thru small fragments of humanity. Reasons were made only to find myself more confused and weary.

2007-02-08T18:14:00.000+08:00

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2007-01-01T00:16:00.000+08:00

Happy 2007 !

2006-12-26T20:47:00.000+08:00

Used to think that commitment, honesty, sharing, communication, trust, determination and lastly to provide constant love to each other were important... Now I realise that something else is even more important in even starting a relationship. That is, fate.

2006-12-05T11:52:00.000+08:00

If you had forgot what had happened before, doesn’t mean it didn’t happen before. Buddha, I don’t do revenge but why can’t people have trust in me?

If you can’t convince me then please don’t confuse me.

Buddha, I learnt to understand, I learnt to forgive and forget, but why I still get this? From now on should I learn to act blur?

My dad got retrenched years back and now my mum!

Someone who promised to walk with me till the end had now left me.

How many more obstacles to attain enlightenment?

2006-11-29T17:58:00.000+08:00

Trying to catch your heart is like trying to catch a star.
Now I leant to wait for a star to fall?

2006-11-28T19:53:00.000+08:00

The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right besides her knowing you can't have her. Someone commented this “Don't waste your time on someone who isn't willing to waste their time on you.”

2006-11-20T21:46:00.000+08:00

I could write a lot, but it’s ultimately up to you, as to how much you will be reading? I go the same way as many of us on earth do. Yet inside me, I’m waiting for you.

2006-11-13T23:56:00.000+08:00

All I ask for is only someone to share my weals and woes with me.

How I wish you will appear right in front of me to let me love and to love me.

2006-11-12T10:43:00.000+08:00

The broken thin glasses had melted and frozen into a hug cube of ice.
The power of time, changes strike.

(Refer to picture blog added on Sunday, October 22, 2006 @ 5:03pm)

2006-11-12T10:38:00.000+08:00

Loving someone is like flying a kite, the string must not be too tight or too loose.

2006-11-09T19:36:00.000+08:00

I thought things are in controlled; yet I’m being controlled.
I had experienced numerous joyous moments with you yet also countless knives stabbing right thru my heart.

2006-11-06T23:23:00.000+08:00

Hate people who do not know what they want,
insensitive, liars, and irresponsible.

2006-11-05T19:56:00.000+08:00

Failures derive experience that makes us grow.
It is also important to realize that True Love is always unconditional, one should never expect any form of return or repayment or how the other should behave. An expectation to your attachments causes conflicting view and disputes, in worst scenarios unsalvageable situation.

2006-10-30T18:44:00.000+08:00

Communication is more important than trust and respects must be earned and not simply expected. Love at first sight is merely intense infatuation and Love prematurely professed should be taken with a pinch of salt.

2006-10-29T11:21:00.000+08:00

Glad to have some great friends with me. Life as a single hasn't been really easy, especially when the loneliness creeps into the cold heart. The thought of being wanted, the warmth, and the love someone can give. But it never too easy to embrace another someone in your life, it would need time to fill up the bits and pieces. Are you the one?

2006-10-29T11:19:00.000+08:00

Its all starts with friend which fate brings us together.
Its then up to us to have things gone deeper and further.
Be caution and handle this fragile relationships with care.

2006-10-27T21:56:00.000+08:00

Don't regret not doing or saying something in life that you really feel strongly about. Many a times, too many of us regret not doing so many things in life rather than the things we've done. However, never begrudge your own principles and morale’s.

2006-10-25T00:21:00.000+08:00

If you love someone, she could be in the same room and not say anything, yet the connection is so intense. She could be a thousand miles away, but a single sound of her voice is enough to convey all that she misses about you.

2006-10-24T12:55:00.000+08:00

I seek commitment, honesty, sharing, communication, trust, determination. I know this is tough, but anyone in here can tell me if a relationship is supposed to be tough or an easy task to achieve. I just learnt that no matter how much u have done for someone, it takes one event for that person to forget about everything you have done, and replace it with nonchalance and cruelty. Sometimes I wonder why those people can't think about others' feelings.

2006-10-24T12:53:00.000+08:00

What is love, if love is sweet but why does it give us endless bitterness time after time? I only wish to have someone who truly love me but why is it so hard? I deserved all these karma? Perhaps I'm desinated to be a loner.

2006-10-22T17:06:00.000+08:00

Love is a force of nature... how true is that? For me, its VERY TRUE... Once you start loving someone, i can never understand how can you stop?

2006-10-22T17:03:00.000+08:00

The meeting of us is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed. i don't have a list of qualities that i see in a partner, cos i understand that every individual is different, and setting expectations for partners simply closes most of my choices. though there's no expectations, i do have preferences. i don't need my partner to live the same as i do. well, what else is love but understanding and rejoicing in the fact that another person lives, acts, and experiences otherwise than we do? apart from the default qualities of a typical relationship, i'd like mine to be telling me my faults when she sees them. not that i will change for her, but to be a better man.

2006-10-22T17:01:00.000+08:00

You treat me a lil better, and i melt like a candy. turn your back at me afterwhich, i break like thin glass. i won't say i'm not the easiest guy to be with, cos as long as there's a mutual understanding among I and you, i believe things will be able to work out.

2006-10-22T16:50:00.000+08:00

I seeks 5 simple attributes in my partner honest, committed, sincere, caring and lastly to provide constant love to each other.